Did I marry the wrong wife?

f3317446-352a-4381-b528-7c82718efc7aSome of you may have noticed the Catch went out late yesterday. When that happens you can usually assume technical difficulties or personal issues. The latter can come from the fact that I spent most the morning on a Catch that didn’t work, or I’m having some kind of personal struggle with the subject matter. Both were true yesterday. After spending most of my time creating a Catch that Marti nixed (you and I are both lucky she did), I then struggled with the subject matter of a new one. The Catch I ended up sending out was a revised version of something Marti had written some time ago to explain something about relationships. Perhaps you will remember the following:

Our attitude towards someone always determines our altitude. If you think you have married the “wrong” person, like Esther, but choose to treat him/her like the “right” one, that person will turn into the right one. On the other hand, if you married the right one, yet treat him/her as the wrong one, that person will turn into the wrong one. This holds true for all our relationships. How we treat each other will determine who we become.

The big question was, and still is: how much shall I tell you about where I stand in my own marriage on these things? Shall I just put this out there as information you can apply to your own relationships, or shall I apply it to mine with my wife? I know that personal application is always the way to go, but how much shall I reveal?

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Bringing the kingdom of God to our relationships

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I would wager that we all would agree that God has a purpose for our lives. But I wonder how many of us are convinced that God has a destiny greater and better than our present circumstances. I ask, because I am not sure I am living to its fullest extent the life God has designed for me to live among the relationships He gave me to embrace. If I am not connecting His purpose for my life with those who are the closest to me, how can I expect to suddenly fulfill His purpose when I answer His call to “Go out” and make a difference in the world?

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Standing in the shoes of ‘the other’

There was a big high wall there that tried to stop me. th

The sign was painted, said “Private Property.” 

But on the backside, it didn’t say nothing. 

This land was made for you and me.

         – Woodie Guthrie

It’s hard to talk about Christianity in culture right now without getting tangled up in politics — something I prefer not to do from the the Catch if I can help it. But on the currently contested issue of immigration, I can’t help it. Mainly because there is a biblical mandate, both New Testament and Old Testament, to welcome the stranger and the homeless. If we are going to be marketplace Christians, we need to exhibit God’s attitude toward strangers and foreigners regardless of what our government does. We may disagree over what we want the country to do, but there is no discussion when it comes to us individually.

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A hundred million reasons

I bow down to pray

I try to make the worst seem better

Lord, show me the way

To cut through all his worn out leather

I’ve got a hundred million reasons to walk away

But baby, I just need one good one to stay

from “Million Reasons” sung by Lady Gaga at Super Bowl LI

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Leave it to Lady Gaga to pray for the healing of the nation at a Super Bowl, no less.

Artists have an immense amount of power to galvanize or polarize people. Knowing Lady Gaga’s strong support of the political left, there was some speculation and no small amount of trepidation over what she might do or say given the huge platform she was given for the halftime show of the Super Bowl at a time of great division and dissatisfaction with the current administration. Certainly not one to shy away from an opportunity to make a statement, Lady Gaga could have just as easily polarized the nation even more. Instead, she chose to bring it together.

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‘When kings normally go out to war…’

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“In the spring of the year, when kings normally go out to war, David sent Joab and the Israelite army to fight the Ammonites. They destroyed the Ammonite army and laid siege to the city of Rabbah. However, David stayed behind in Jerusalem” (2 Samuel 11:1).

Recipe for trouble. David got lazy. He sent someone else to fight his battles and lounged around his palace “when kings normally go out to war.” Sure enough, one afternoon, after His afternoon nap, he was lounging around on his porch and spied a beautiful woman bathing on a rooftop below. After inquiring about her and finding out she was Bathsheba, wife of Uriah the Hittite who was off fighting the Ammonites where David should have been, he had her brought to him and he slept with her. When he later found out she was pregnant, he sent for her husband, Uriah, to come home from the battlefield. There David wine and dined him, gave him gifts and sent him home to his wife. But Uriah didn’t go home. He spent the night with the palace guard.

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And the mother of Boaz is…

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Ruth, Ruth … What do you hold in your hand?

Do you know more than you understand?

Is it the wheat the plains of Moab have yielded into your hands?

Or is it your life you cast up into the wind?

Ruth is the story of loyalty, hope, love and redemption.

When a severe famine hits the land of Israel, Elimelech takes his wife, Naomi, and two sons to the land of Moab. There, after both sons take Moabite wives, the father and the sons all die leaving a bitter Naomi to return to Israel with no husband and no heir. After insisting that her daughters-in-law stay in Moab where they belong, Ruth, instead, clings to Naomi, preferring to stake her claim as a foreigner in the land of Israel with her mother-in-law. This is where the famous lines that are quoted in many weddings come from: “Where you go, I will go; where you lodge I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God, my God.” While beautifully suitable for a wedding, the original words were spoken by Ruth to Naomi.

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‘They went thataway!’

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It was by faith that Rahab the prostitute was not destroyed with the people in her city who refused to obey God. For she had given a friendly welcome to the spies. Hebrews 11:31

Rahab the prostitute is another example. She was shown to be right with God by her actions when she hid those messengers and sent them safely away by a different road. James 2:25

Rahab was a woman who heard from God. Not too terribly different than Mary, or Tamar, or my wife, or any other woman for that matter, because women hear from God just as easily as men. The thing that set Rahab apart was that she not only heard from God, she acted on what she heard. That’s what got her into not only the Hall of Faith in Hebrews, it got her into the Book of James where faith without works is dead. She had heard that God was with these people. She knew about the miracle crossing of the Red Sea, and their defeat of two Amorite kings, Sihon and Og, and she had an idea her town of Jericho was next. So when she ran into the two spies who were checking out the city, she hid them and then, when the authorities came looking, she told them they had been there but they had left by another way. In other words, “They went thataway!”

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Matthew’s Hall of Fame

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Abraham was the father of Isaac.

Isaac was the father of Jacob.

Jacob was the father of Judah and his brothers.

Judah was the father of Perez and Zerah (whose mother was Tamar).  (Matthew 1:2-3)

There are four women (other than Mary, the mother of Jesus) who are mentioned in the most important lineage in history, the one recorded in the first chapter of Matthew that led from Abraham through the house of David to the birth of the Son of God. These women were Tamar, Rahab, Ruth and Bathsheba, and they were all foreigners who had colorful stories related to how they came to be in this most auspicious lineup. This Jewish family tree was a patriarchy, so there was certainly no obligation to enter in the names of women. If they are here, they are here for a reason. The Holy Spirit inspired Matthew to include them because they, and their stories, formed an important part of the DNA from which Jesus was born. Call it Matthew’s Hall of Fame.

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‘Go and marry a prostitute’

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We’re going to begin a series today on women of the Bible, beginning with the well-known Gomer. You don’t know about Gomer? We’ve decided this series will feature some of the lesser known women of the Bible.

Gomer is the prostitute that the prophet Hosea found and married in obedience to the command of the Lord. “Go and marry a prostitute, so that some of her children will be conceived in prostitution. This will illustrate how Israel has acted like a prostitute by turning against the Lord and worshiping other gods.” (Hosea 1:2)

Gomer gave Hosea three children, each of which became an illustration of God’s dealing with His chosen people. The whole book of Hosea is a revolving door of God’s judgment and mercy. It pretty much mirrors God’s relationship with the nation of Israel throughout the Old Testament. They follow Him and He blesses them. They go against Him and He goes against them by abandoning them to their enemies and allowing them to be dragged off into exile. But throughout this rollercoaster ride is a thread of God’s love, mercy and faithfulness to his people that prevails in spite of them and in spite of even His judgment of them. It’s clear that His love and mercy operates on another track that has nothing to do with whether they are doing the right thing or not. It is God’s mercy regardless — His faithfulness anyway — His love, unconditional.

“Then the Lord said to me, ‘Go and love your wife again, even though she commits adultery with another lover. This will illustrate that the Lord still loves Israel, even though the people have turned to other gods and love to worship them.’ So I bought her back for fifteen pieces of silver and five bushels of barley and a measure of wine” (3:1-3).

This is the story of Hosea and Gomer — God and Israel — but it is really your story and mine, because we are Gomer. The only way to really understand this story is to make it personal. Stand in Gomer’s stilettos. Say along with her, “I am the one who leaves the Lord for other gods. I waffle; I waver; I go back and forth. I have sold myself to many lovers. There would be no chance for me were it not for my relentless husband who loves me, comes after me and even pays my going price to buy me off the street (after I already belong to Him in marriage, no less).

“But then I will win her back once again (says the Lord.. I will lead her into the desert and speak tenderly to her there” (2:14). ‘You will call me ‘my husband’ instead of ‘my master’” (2:16). “I will make you my wife forever, showing you righteousness and justice, unfailing love and compassion. I will be faithful to you and make you mine, and you will finally know me as the Lord” (2:19-20). “Then I will heal you of your faithlessness; my love will know no bounds, for my anger will be gone forever” (14:4). These statements all depend on God. They are His will. They happen in spite of the actions of His people. It’s God’s faithfulness and not ours that wins out in the end.

How about this beautiful picture of the heart of God: “Oh, how can I give you up, Israel? How can I let you go? How can I destroy you like Admah or demolish you like Zeboiim? My heart is torn within me, and my compassion overflows” (11:8).

All of this should evoke something like this response in us: “Oh, that we might know the Lord! Let us press on to know him. He will respond to us as surely as the arrival of dawn or the coming of rains in early spring” (6:3).

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‘Who makes mouths?’

“When we back off from His commands we are not accepting His provision to obey.”

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“Who makes mouths?” God said to Moses after He called him to go before Pharaoh and free the the children of Israel from slavery in Egypt, and Moses complained and whined about his stuttering and not being a good public speaker. “Who makes people so they can speak or not speak, hear or not hear, see or not see. Is it not I, the Lord? Now go, and do as I have told you. I will help you speak well, and I will tell you what to say.”

“But Moses again pleaded, ‘Lord, please send someone else.’ Then the Lord became angry.” (Exodus 4:11-13) So the Lord acquiesced and gave Moses’ brother, Aaron, to go with Moses and be the spokesperson for them both. But Aaron made for a lot of trouble for the people later on because of bad leadership, making you sure they would have been better off without him, and God certainly would have provided Moses with the voice and the words he needed just like He said.

God understands our limitations, but He can get a little impatient with our stupidity. Only because when we back off from His commands we are not accepting His provision to obey. We look to ourselves and don’t see enough. We’re looking in the wrong place.

Next time you need something in mind, body or spirit to do what God has asked you to do, remember who made you, and who made even that part that you need, and take it on. Put Him to the test. He likes that. And I can’t help but think He wants you to experience His power directly, rather than to give in to a compromise.

Time to Celebrate!

Celebrate with us … and Mike

The Catch Ministry’s headquarters main entrance and satellite offices are open and, once again, with the ministry continuing to unlock all of our  doors too!

The Keeper of the Keys touched the heart of our new locksmith, Catch Member Mike, who knew exactly where to drill the hole to fit a new key and opened the door. Thank you Mission Viejo Mike

Celebrate with us … We are All Stars!

Every year, Constant Contact, our email marketing company, recognize 10% of its customer base as All Stars for marketing success and a high open rate —  The Catch was recently acknowledged as one of the 10% from their entire portfolio! The Catch is an All Star!

Specifically, the Company awarded us for:

  • Capture and engage curiosity
  • Consistently sustain the desire for more
  • Relevant and intriguing headlines

Given the above, Constant Contact recommends we “strongly encourage readership to Share Wildly: to not just a few people but to everyone they know.”

Celebrate with us … and the IRS

The IRS acknowledged the Catch Ministry for making Efficient Use of Donor Dollars with productivity and reach, and with little waste or off-target spending.

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