Born to die

Dark clouds hide the sunlit sky
In the barn a baby cries
Does he know he’s born to die?
Rest now while your trials are few
Only your Father knows why

He was not a mighty kingth-7
He could make a hammer ring
Touch a heart and make it sing
His hands were the hands of strength
Hands that would pull men free

Bright sun tanned his weathered face
Dusty were the roads he traced
Spreading news of love and grace
Binding the broken heart
Soothing the sorrow-torn face

Dark clouds hide the sunlit sky
In the town a baby cries
On a hill a Savior dies
Dies of his own free will
He can tell you why
– from the song “Born to Die,” by John Fischer

As we begin Easter week, a word about Christmas. Of course there never would be Easter without it. There never would have been a cross without a manger. There never would have been a Savior without a baby. There never would have been a death without a birth … and what a birth it was.

Humble. In a town barely on the map. Laid in a feeding trough, serenaded by a cacophony of barnyard sounds. Uneventful, except for a handful of lowly shepherds who did witness a few hundred thousand angels, but who’s going to believe that? And the only royalty who attended were a few kings from the East, and we’re pretty sure they were a little late, by a couple of years, most likely.

Who but God would have done it like this? And I say that not because I know God that well, but because no human being would have conceived of a king born this way. Nor would any human conceive of a king living this way either, without a home, with little or no funding, where the only thing he owns is the shirt on his back.

And who were the people that got it — that heard his message and believed it? They were the poorest of the poor, the lepers and outcasts, the worst of sinners — the smelly, dirty band of ragamuffins who followed Jesus everywhere, except when he needed them the most. That’s when they all deserted him, and most of them were pretty bewildered about all the talk of a resurrection three days later.

These were simple folk — these were not theology students — and it was a simple plan.

The first man and woman sinned, and an animal had to be sacrificed to cover their shame. Now, if God would save the race, a human being had to die to cover the nakedness of the world — someone who could not only pay the sacrifice, but rise again and conquer death forever. That would be God’s only begotten Son, Jesus, born of a human virgin, whose seed came from God — a second Adam, first of a new strain of humanity with God as their real Father.

Now isn’t that simply brilliant? It’s the self-evident proof of the truth of the gospel story.  Who else but God could have thought of this?

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Simply brilliant

Most of the fundamental ideas of science are essentially simple, and may, as a rule, be expressed in a language comprehensible to everyone. – Albert Einstein

Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these. – Jesus (Matthew 19:14)

Plant physiology: brilliant

Plant physiology: brilliant

This statement by Albert Einstein applies to the gospel as well as to science. Indeed, all truth can be described this way. A scholar can dedicate her life to studying all the ramifications of what a child can fundamentally grasp. This is why Jesus always singled out the children who came to Him as having an inside track on what many of us as grownups may have forgotten. Woe to those who complicate the truth.

Knowledge is often thought of as intellectual property that makes you wiser the more you know, but real wisdom is truth embraced and applied, not information amassed. An adult has to prove what a child can believe; indeed, an adult may not be able to prove what a child can believe because it comes by faith, not by intellect. We need to pay more attention to children and to our own hearts.

We recently planted some new flowering plants in our garden. Now, you can study botany and understand plant physiology and all the components of photosynthesis, and you can also appreciate the color and beauty of a flower and understand it takes sun and water to grow.

Flower garden: simple

Flower garden: simple

The same is true for theology and knowing God. You can know so much about God that you don’t really know God at all. You can write volumes of books on God and not know how to simply hear Him or talk to Him.

The simply brilliant truth is that the almighty God has made Himself known to us, His children. He has spoken and He moves in our hearts through the power of the Holy Spirit. He prays for us in words we can’t even utter. He is knowable, and a small child will most likely know more about that than an adult.

The fundamental truth of the gospel is essentially simple, and may, as a rule, be expressed in a language comprehensible to everyone. This is why we can take the Gospel of Welcome anywhere. Even if the spoken language and/or cultural language may be foreign, there is a language of the Spirit that is comprehensible to everyone, everywhere. The Gospel of Welcome is universal wherever there are human beings … and that’s simply brilliant.

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Simple; Brilliant

SIMPLE:th-3

It’s all about Jesus.

Love God and your neighbor.

Go and make disciples.

The Holy Spirit will give you words to say when it’s time.

God is love.

Love is of God.

Treat others the way you would like to be treated.

Consider others as more important than yourself.

Choose the lesser place.

Confess your sins to each other.

Pray for each other.

We are Christ’s ambassadors.

We are the sheep of His pastures.

He is our Shepherd.

We are made in God’s image to glorify Him (and enjoy Him forever).

Seek and you will find.

Ask and it will be given to you.

Knock and the door will be opened.

Jesus died for all.

“Father, forgive them, because they don’t know what they are doing.”

Put off the old; put on the new.

If you have no sin, you can judge; otherwise, don’t.

Walk in the Spirit.

BRILLIANT:th-2

It’s all about Jesus.

Love God and your neighbor.

Go and make disciples.

The Holy Spirit will give you words to say when it’s time.

God is love.

Love is of God.

Treat others the way you would like to be treated.

Consider others as more important than yourself.

Choose the lesser place.

Confess your sins to each other.

Pray for each other.

We are Christ’s ambassadors.

We are the sheep of His pastures.

He is our Shepherd.

We are made in God’s image to glorify Him (and enjoy Him forever).

Seek and you will find.

Ask and it will be given to you.

Knock and the door will be opened.

Jesus died for all.

“Father, forgive them, because they don’t know what they are doing.”

Put off the old; put on the new.

If you have no sin, you can judge; otherwise, don’t.

Walk in the Spirit.

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Simple and brilliant

There may be many questionsth-1
That you’d like to answer somehow
All things will be shown someday
But you can’t know all things now

But if you drain yourself
Of all your little fears
You might restore yourself
By letting go the tears

Think about what Jesus said
Before you let your mind reject Him
Listen to your heart instead
And you will accept Him
– Love Song

Those of you who looked at the Jesus People video from 1972 I referred to yesterday for the scene at UC Berkeley’s “public square,” might have noticed this song at the beginning of the film, sung by the early Jesus music group, Love Song. In its gentle way, this song reached out to people with the gospel in a tender musical embodiment of 1 Peter 3:15, “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect …”

There is a simplicity to the gospel that reaches people at a deep level — at the level of the Spirit. With songs like this one and “Welcome Back,” Love Song was able to reach into people’s hearts and pull them to Jesus. It wasn’t judgment, it wasn’t hellfire and brimstone, it wasn’t “turn or burn,” it was a reasonable request — an invitation to use your mind and your heart to consider the offer of salvation Jesus brings.

The opening lines of the chorus present an oxymoron: “Think about what Jesus said
before you let your mind reject Him.” Think about what Jesus said, but not too much. If you think about it too much, you might reject it. Listen with your heart instead of your head, and you will be more likely to hear the truth. It’s about hearing with your heart. Your heart can accept the simplicity of the truth; your head might complicate the issue.

Mind you, these guys were barely Christians themselves when they were writing songs like this. They were downloading this stuff from the Holy Spirit. I’m sorry, but I knew them then, and they were not all that smart about theology and the Bible. They were smart in the Spirit, and that’s why they kept it simple.

At the same time, there were people like Francis Schaeffer and Os Guinness who were traveling the deepest, darkest canyons of their minds in order to hold biblical truth up to the scrutiny of modern thought and philosophy. As Os shared in our interview this week, there was a widespread hunger for knowledge, truth and the meaning in life. “It’s impossible to capture the excitement of the whole scene — people hitchhiking, searching, reading, arguing, discussing, smoking pot, whatever. You could go to a crossroads in Europe and one person would be with a backpack reading Nietzsche, another C.S. Lewis, another Siddhartha — swapping books and recommending where they go next — and you had this incredibly stimulating discussion almost round the clock.” And, as Os went on to point out, many traveled to Switzerland because they had heard there was a man there who was linking modern philosophy, biblical truth, and the same Holy Spirit by which Love Song was warning people about thinking too much.

What do we have here if we don’t have a gospel and a Holy Spirit that can translate it to the simple-minded — past the mind and straight to the heart — but that speaks also to the brilliant minds of any age and the intellectually curious?

But at the same time, Os Guinness, with his brilliant mind and his sweeping understanding of history and the movements of God in the world, would also resonate totally with Love Song, and their admonition to…

Think about what Jesus said
Before you let your mind reject Him
Listen to your heart instead
And you will accept Him.

This is the gospel … simple, and brilliant, all at the same time. This is one of the reasons why I love God so much.

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Freedom for all, or just for us?

thFreedom of religion does not mean for Christians only. If we as Christians are going to stand for a free and open society where we are free to believe and act as our conscience dictates, we must also support that freedom for believers in all other religions and believers in no religion at all. History has sadly shown that Christians can impose their beliefs on people as much as anyone can. That’s why we are not looking to create a Christian society; we are looking to create a free society.

This is what is so brilliant about the great American experiment. America, from the start, has been all about freedom for all – “one nation … with liberty and justice for all” – not just for Christians. America is not a Christian nation any more than it is a Muslim nation, or a Buddhist nation, or a Jewish nation, or a Mormon nation; it is a free nation. Our soldiers have never died for Christianity, they have died for freedom for all religions and none.

If freedom is freedom, it must be freedom for all, not just for us.

This is the central message of Os Guinness’s new book, The Global Public Square. It’s a very timely message and one Christians in the western world desperately need to embrace and live out at all levels, especially in the marketplace. And here’s why: If we stand for the rights of all religions and none, we will be standing for a society where the Gospel of Welcome will be free to go forth in its most appealing and proper manner, without coercion. The gospel is an invitation to all; it must never be imposed on anyone.

Not that we don’t practice persuasion, but that we practice persuasion in an open environment where other people with other beliefs are also free to try and persuade us. If Christians are the only ones who get the microphone, no one will be able to fairly judge the truth.

In a Jesus People video from 1972, there is a clip filmed from the steps of Sproul Hall, University of California, Berkeley, where Hal Lindsay, Bill Counts and others are speaking to the crowd about Jesus Christ. (Note: This section is 17:24 minutes into the video.) The Christians gathered the crowd, the Christians brought the sound system, but they also gave over the microphone to anyone who wanted to say anything. An atheist spoke his mind, and a Satanist spoke his mind, and the Christians spoke theirs. In the process, they were able to agree with many things the atheist, and even the a Satanist, said, but also show how Jesus would probably agree with their objections as well. They were then able to set Jesus apart from all the bad things that have been done in His name. It was a free and open debate in the public square and the gospel was able to be clarified, and anyone who objected would have to have been impressed that the Christians also gave voice go other religions and points of view. That’s what we’re talking about.

The western world needs to see Christians standing for the freedom of all faiths – even atheists (for atheism is a faith too). There needs to be a softening of the heart of all believers in Christ to preach the gospel while being welcoming to all to investigate freely and openly the claims of Christ. Thank God we live in a country where we can do this, and thanks to all who serve and preserve this precious freedom today.

Click on the picture to hear last night’s very important interview with Os Guinness. Everyone should hear this!

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‘$120 and a cold one’

Our dog patch

Our dog patch

He was the nicest guy. He noticed the struggling little patch of grass in front of our house and asked if I was interested in some sod. He was a landscaper who lived around the corner and had some St. Augustine grass left over from another job that he would let me have if I wanted it.

I explained how the dead grass he was looking at was actually new only a few weeks ago, but the neighborhood dogs had already peed it beyond recognition and anything new would only result in the same fate. However, I did have some bare patches of St. Augustine in the back that my wife had been wanting me to fix for some time, and maybe he could be the answer to my dreams, since my “honey do” list was growing too big for one husband to handle.

“Well let’s take a look,” he said.

As we walked back he raved about our little cottage and seemed to be full of free advice about everything. He even took some time explaining how our ficus trees needed to be opened up a little to let more sun in, and how their roots were taking over our back yard, and then proceeded to show me how to trim the roots back. “You can do it with an axe. I’ll bring one with me and show you.”

After examining our lawn and determining he had just what we needed, and that he could put it in that afternoon for only $120 and a cold beer when he was done (and that was just for the labor — the grass was free), I had decided he was an angel in disguise.

We chatted about lots of things as we walked back around the house, and he had nothing but nice things to say about what a rare piece of property we had for Laguna. Back out front, he asked for some paper and a pen so he could draw up a little contract since he didn’t have his book with him. On it he put the name of his landscape company, his landscapers license number, phone number, and then he wrote “$40.00 down, $80.00 upon completion of the project” and said, “You can write me a check for the $80, but if you happen to have cash for the $40, that would save me a trip to the bank.”

I don’t always have much cash on hand, but as a “coincidence” I had $40, and I celebrated in my mind as I went and got it, that I would be able to get this one thing off my list. Marti was going to be so happy.

He said he’d be back with his truck in about an hour, but when an hour passed, and turned into two, I began to feel stupid. Was my angel really a devil? A guy with a landscaper’s license who needed $40 in cash should have been my first clue, but it never even crossed my mind. When I tried the phone number and found it wasn’t a working number it became evident that his “$120 and a cold one” was really “$40 and bye-bye.” Sure enough, I never saw the guy again.

Jesus told His disciples they needed to be as shrewd as serpents and innocent as doves. Well I got the innocent part down, but I could have used a little more shrewdness.

Of course this raises the whole issue of trust. Finding that line between trust and suspicion in relationships is a difficult proposition. I personally think that I would rather err on the side of trust even if it means I get taken advantage of sometimes.

Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 13 that love “believes all things,” but is that the same thing as gullible? I’m not so sure we can always know. I’m sure some of you have lost a lot more than $40 and that can up the ante on this whole discussion, but I still want to be a trusting person and that may cost me sometimes. What do you think?

I know what Marti thinks. She says that he probably needed it more than I did, and will I please fix her lawn now. I have my friendly neighborhood “landscaper” to thank for that!

One of the things we will be discussing with Os Guinness tonight will be getting along with people who may be our enemies in disguise. Don’t miss this!

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The morning after

Sing the praises of the Lord, you his faithful people; praise his holy name. For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning. (Psalm 30:4-5)th-2

Funerals are like weddings with a really bad ending.

You have lots of friends over. You see people you haven’t seen in a long time. There’s lots of music, flowers, gifts, food and drink. Normal life, as we know it, stops for a while, and you have a chance to reflect on the really grand things in life. You tell stories, share pictures and remember the things that got you to this point. And to a certain extent at both events, you party. But for both the wedding couple and the one left behind, nothing will be the same again.

It’s when the party’s over and everyone goes home, back to their normal routines, that the difference between these two events becomes a stark reality to the one who survives a loved one. The wedding couple adjusts up; the survivor adjusts down. The wedding leaves a mess with lots of good memories; the funeral leaves just a mess.

It’s the next day that is the most telling. It’s the next day that the one who survives a loss needs our prayers and our love the most, and the day after that … and the day after that, even more. The wedding couple wakes up no longer alone. The survivor wakes up and wishes he hadn’t; the silence is so devastating. Depression sets in. The reality of the loss hits harder than ever because up until now, there were distractions everywhere. He hardly had a chance to be alone. There was always someone there and some decision to make about something, The day after, everyone returns to their lives pretty much the same as when they left, but he is left with a huge gaping hole in the middle of his “normal” life, and everything around him is a reminder.

The Psalmist says that weeping may stay for the night, and in this case, it will be a long night. The night can last several days … weeks … months … but the morning will come, and when it does, it will come with rejoicing. God’s favor lasts a lifetime.

The further out you go, the more you realize that time heals, and eternity erases all sadness but the one Christ bore, that we might be reunited with all loves.

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To all the men that Kathy loved…

“L’chaim! L’chaim! To life!”

Kathy was a woman in a house of men; she had to be tough. With this in mind, John and Marti have something to say to those three men she loved so dearly.

To all the memories you can muster – all of them – the good and the bad ones; they make up your life with Kathy. From the times you had enough of her, to the times you longed for her touch. From rousting you out of bed in the morning to boat rides at sunset. From after curfew to after work, she thought about you, worried about you, prayed for you, cried for you, and bargained with God over you. She longed for you and let you go, wondering how she would ever live without you.

Chad, you became a man so fast – too fast, she thought. You were always the responsible one. You inherited her tendency to hold things together. She saw it and knew what you were doing, though she would often wish for her little boy back. Then you found Jenna and she stepped aside. She always knew how and when to do this. She was the opposite of a smothering mother, if there is such a thing.

Dan, you were the crazy one – the one most unlike her. She enjoyed your happy-go-lucky nature, but you terrified her. She loved and feared your free spirit. She glanced out the window often when you were out, and prayed whenever she heard sirens.

Then you went off to war leaving your beautiful Amber behind, and Kathy almost went off her rocker, but only inside, because she couldn’t let you know, lest you worry about her and miss how proud she was. She would not have that. Life isn’t fair. She can worry about you all she wants, but you mustn’t worry a minute about her. She’ll be fine.

And Mark … dear Mark … she didn’t care what was or was not going on in that thick head of yours, she loved you anyway. Always did; always will. She’s tenacious. She held on no matter what. She was a little pillar of a woman. Small. Immovable. You’d run into her and bounce off, wondering what it was you hit. You’d be the one to get hurt, and that was good, because you needed her strength. You may find you will still be bumping into her. That’s okay. That’s just that part of her that will always be with you – that part that made you the man you are today and will be even greater tomorrow.

God creates life and wants life to continue. We come from God and through Christ, we return to Him forgiven and new.  At death, life is changed, not taken away.  And since Heaven is a place outside of time and God is always with you, your lives together – Mark, Danny, and Chad – remain interwoven with Kathy, now and forevermore.

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‘L’chaim! To life!’

th-1Mark … Chad … Dan … I know you’ll be reading this today. We have received such an outpouring of sympathy, prayers and support from so many people via Facebook, emails and comments on yesterday’s Catch that it’s overwhelming to read it all. I have chosen just a few to share with you here. Know that these words directed to us are also for you as well. We have a big family, and it is not idle words when they say they are holding you and us up.

Marti, when someone tells you they are sorry for your loss, you can say about Aunt Kathy the same thing I said about my mom when she died – I didn’t lose her. I know exactly where she is, and Who she is hanging out with. – Carole (Dear sweet Carole always has something to smile about!)

I’m weeping with you, John, Marti, and the rest. I know what it is to lose someone you love so suddenly, with so many questions. You are carried. You are held. Remember to breathe. – Ron

It’s a steady stream of comments from those who have experienced a similar loss. Those who can give comfort are those who have already received it through their own sorrow.

Then Bruce sent us this from Charles Spurgeon: “Dark caverns keep not back the miners, if they know that diamonds are to be found there; you need not fear suffering when you remember what riches it yields to your soul.”

I know you will all miss her greatly. I have no words of wisdom – only a lot of love and prayers for you, her sons and husband, the family. Let the Eagles Wings rise again – She is not there. She is risen! Praise God!  – Joanne

I am currently helping write the story of a man with a number of missionary adventures, and just this week he shared with me the part of his life when he lost his older brother. He was so devastated that he lost track of his goals and lived in a deep depression for three months, until, when at another funeral, he heard these same words spoken about Jesus, which are just as true for his brother and for Kathy: “He is not here; He is risen.” Suddenly he realized that he had been mourning his brother’s death, when, in fact, he hadn’t died. He had risen. Time to get on with his own life. You may not be far enough in your own grief process to know this, but it will surely be this truth that will pull you out.

We are never ready, especially when the loss is of someone we love, a life that has framed ours for so long. I am praying that God comforts you both in this time and in the years ahead, and that the memories are sweet.  – Catherine

There are no words to express the feeling … just fall into His arms as often as you need. Mourn, cry yourself to sleep and take whatever time YOU need to learn to live a “new norm.” You know our Papa-God is always there and He knows our pain. – Lynn

Finally, there’s my personal favorite:
I can’t tell you how often we have longed for a real life Johnny’s Cafe. We would meet you there tonight. Peace and love.  – Dave

Dave, we will meet at Johnny’s Cafe sometime soon. God’s got to have a Johnny’s in heaven. If not, we’ll just make one. Can’t wait to meet all of you there!

I conclude today with a few lines from one of Marti’s favorite scenes from Fiddler on the Roof.

(By the way … Thank you, everyone!)

(Tevye)
Life has a way of confusing us

(Lazar)
Blessing and bruising us

(Both)
Drink, l’chaim! To life!

(Tevye)
God would like us to be joyful
Even when our hearts lie panting on the floor

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On Eagle’s Wings

And He will raise you up on eagle’s wings,
Bear you on the breath of dawn,
Make you to shine like the sun,
And hold you in the palm of His hand.
– Fr. Michael Joncas

DSCN0374These lyrics, part of a much-loved devotional song titled “On Eagle’s Wings,” written by Father Michael Joncas for the funeral service of a friend’s father, was also a favorite song of Kathy Wolcott, wife of Marti’s brother, Mark, and “Aunt Kathy” to our children. At Kathy’s insistence, we all stood up at the funeral service of Mark and Marti’s mother and led the congregation of mostly retired people in Naples, Florida, in the singing of this song. All in all it was a lively service. We made sure of it, unwilling as we were to have Mom’s memory turned into a dirge. As a result, these older people were surprisingly jovial after the service, and there were so many requests for us to “do” their funerals, that we later joked that we should go into business as Eagle’s Wings Funeral Services.

Eagles’ Wings Funeral Services has lost its strongest proponent in that Aunt Kathy died yesterday in her sleep, the result of a massive stroke. She leaves behind two excellent sons — one, a Navy Seal, and the other a successful businessman, husband and father of two grandchildren — and Marti’s brother, who ironically is still recovering from a stroke of his own. All attention for so long has been with Mark. No one ever thought we would lose Kathy, so full of life and love, with seemingly an endless supply of selfless energy.

This will be hard. Kathy was the strong one, quietly holding everyone and everything together. She’s the one you can’t shock. She’s the one with the emotional and spiritual strength to listen, take in your problems, and somehow hand them back to you somewhat lighter. She was always behind the scenes, smiling and enjoying everyone else’s joy. She would be tough on the kids, and then wink at them when she knew they were up to something. Aunt Kathy had their respect.

She’s the last one any of us expected to go.

We will all be floundering for a while, convinced that the wrong person was chosen to go first. Our prayers will be full of questions. The sons will take it the hardest. Dan is already on his way back to Florida from Afghanistan. We will have to figure out what to do.

This is when, deep down inside, you know faith is there — reasons are there — you just can’t touch them. This is when you need some assistance. I’ve dialed up Eagle’s Wings Funeral Services a couple times, but there’s no answer.DSCN0333_edited-1

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