Too good for heaven

th-6For we are to God the pleasing aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing. To the one we are an aroma that brings death; to the other, an aroma that brings life. (2 Corinthians 2:15-16)

Two types of people; two different reactions. I’ve taught this passage for years, but this weekend I saw something I hadn’t seen before. If, as it states, the fragrance we carry is Christ in us, then we should be able to get a clue about these two types of people by thinking about Jesus and how people reacted to Him. Who was drawn to Jesus and who was repelled by Him? Who was Jesus life to, and to whom was He death?

Well, that’s actually pretty easy. The people who were drawn to Jesus were the common people who followed Him around wherever He went. They were the sinners, the tax collectors, and prostitutes — the sick, diseased and mentally ill. They were in many ways the outcasts of society — people whom good decent folk would shun. Their weakness or infirmity prevented them from even trying to be something other than the needy people they were.

And what of those who would have found Jesus to be a fragrance of death? Well, that’s easy, too. That would have been the scribes and Pharisees — the religious leaders of the day who prided themselves in being a cut above everyone else. They were not only repulsed by Jesus, they were repulsed by His friends.

And Jesus didn’t exactly do or say anything that would try to make it better for them. It’s almost as if He went out of His way to offend them. I think I know why. He loved them, too, like He loves everyone, He just knew that their self-righteousness would keep them from coming to Him to be saved, and He would have no part of it. Until they could see themselves among that motley group of followers, they would always be too good for heaven.

Jesus is a fragrance of life to sinners, and a fragrance of death to those who are trying to be better than sinners.

I am reminded of Mrs. Turpin’s vision in Flannery O’Connor’s short story, “Revelation.” (Note: Lest someone be offended by the “n” word here, Ms. O’Conner was a southern writer in the 1960s when this word was commonplace. Besides, prior to this, her character, Mrs. Turpin, had just used the same word in her own mind when casting judgment on a room full of people in a doctor’s waiting room.)

A visionary light settled in her eyes. She saw the streak as a vast swinging bridge extending upward from the earth through a field of living fire. Upon it a vast horde of souls were rumbling toward heaven. There were whole companies of white-trash, clean for the first time in their lives, and bands of black niggers in white robes, and battalions of freaks and lunatics shouting and clapping and leaping like frogs. And bringing up the end of the procession was a tribe of people whom she recognized at once as those who, like herself and Claud [her husband], had always had a little of everything and the God-given wit to use it right. She leaned forward to observe them closer. They were marching behind the others with great dignity, accountable as they had always been for good order and common sense and respectable behavior. Yet she could see by their shocked and altered faces that even their virtues were being burned away.

What I’ve always liked about this vision is that the respectable people are going to get into heaven too, it’s just that, by the time they get there, they will have lost what separated them, and will probably be jumping around with the freaks.

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Of pencils and Pink Pearls

th-1Remember the smell of a freshly sharpened pencil? Or how about a brand new Pink Pearl eraser? Didn’t you always put it to your nose when it first came out of its box? These are all tied to feelings of the first day of school and their images are now icons of our childhood — art in everyday life. Just to see one of these erasers should take you back.

Erasers are good things. They tell us we are going to make mistakes. We got an eraser not because we might make a mistake, but because we were guaranteed mistakes. Mistakes are an important part of learning.

Of course computers make it easier now. It was more critical when you had only pencils and erasers. You could erase your mistakes but never completely. It still left a smudge. You could tell something was there once. It’s like a scar.

Remember erasing so hard you took the lines off the paper? Erase too much in the same spot and you would rip open a hole. Pencils and erasers are truer to real life. Our mistakes usually leave smudges — sometimes holes. Our sins are forgiven, and as far as God is concerned — forgotten — but on earth, the smudges remain. Part of that, I think, is so we can tell the story of our mistakes — our sin and our forgiveness. Those smudges will be valuable as identifiers for others.

What’s more, we’re still writing, and still erasing. Who on earth has got this down? Who can continue without more mistakes? We may have switched to computers that absorb our trial and error without a trace, even correct us automatically, but in life, it’s still all pencils and erasers. It’s a good thing; otherwise some people might not even try. But the Holy Spirit is the Pink Pearl of our life’s composition — there to erase our mistakes and give us the courage and the power to write on.

Jesus still bears the scars of His death. They are the smudges of our sin on His humanity. We are told we will be perfect in heaven, but Jesus will not. He will bear the signs of the cost of our salvation — the wounds in His hands and side that He showed to His disciples even after His resurrection. If He had them then, He must have them now. I believe that is so we will never forget. We will thank Him for all eternity.

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Full time student

thSo that your trust may be in the Lord, I teach you today, even you. (Proverbs 22:19)

“Even you.” Such a strange, unexpected occurrence of that phrase, except I welcome it because it could apply to any of us for various reasons. We are all called to be disciples, but we all have things that prevent us from learning. “Even you,” means that we all have exemptions to learning — things that excuse us from the process — that we need to guard against. We are all called to be students, all the time. We are always learning and class is always in session.

“Even you” could mean a number of things. We need to be on guard for any of these lest they creep into our thinking. It could mean:

You are stupid. But this is highly unlikely. No one is too stupid to learn. And yet, you might think you are. You might be overwhelmed with what those around you know, making you seem stupid by comparison, but this is never true for followers of Christ. In discipleship, we each have our own path to learning, and it may not look like everyone else’s. But because we have the Holy Spirit to teach us, learning is personalized. You will get what you need, when you need it, not before.

You are smart. This is more likely to happen — we think we already know what we need to know, so when it comes time for learning, we exempt ourselves. We might even do something as noble as think of how we can help someone else learn, since we already know. Leaders are especially vulnerable to this trap. To always think the teaching is for someone else is to put yourself beyond learning, and that is a dangerous place to be regardless of how smart you are.

You are not paying attention. You are too busy. You are distracted. You have ADD. There is just too much going on in your life for you to stop and learn something. (This would be tragic.)

You are not going to do anything about it. This is probably the worst exemption to learning, but quite possibly the most common among Christians. Being exposed to multiple weekly teaching sessions can be a wonderful opportunity to learn, but that is only if what is being taught is acted upon. Jesus was constantly warning against hearing the word and doing nothing about it. Some Christians are simply over taught and under developed. Repeated hearing without doing makes one callous to learning.

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock” (Matthew 7:24).

So put your trust in the Lord today and be ready to learn — yes you. I’m talking to you … even you!

[NOTE: Because Marti received so many greetings and best wishes for her birthday over the weekend, she wanted me to thank you all for the love and encouragement you poured out to her lest she miss thanking everyone.]

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Birthday girl

934970_499113480136399_39113021_nThis is a special day for me.

On this day, God brought into existence a woman to be my wife. I knew it the first time I met her. She completed me – like we had been together before time. I knew that, whatever it would take, I would have to be near her. The night we met I went home and wrote about a star falling from the sky and landing next to me. That’s because she sparkles and shines.

He had this planned. I was holding out for this and wondering if I was asking too much – to be overwhelmed with certainty. To know beyond the shadow of a doubt – to know so as to obliterate my fear of not knowing.

It made me smile to think that God knew me this well.

He knew her before she was born and planned that she would go on to be:

The mother of three incredible children who are
each one, in their own way,
a gift to the world;
The real dynamic in our family;
The one who gets up with a plan and stays up late to take it apart
and redo it for another day;
The reason I smile;
The one who believes in me when I don’t;
The one who jumps up and down with frustration when I don’t realize the potential
she sees in me;
The charge in my battery;
The vision to move on;
The one who will not let go of a dream;
The one who will always do what God says
even if it means a fight.
The one who looks up when I’m looking down;
The one whose smile can suddenly make everything right;
The one who believes…
who hopes,
endures,
and loves to crawl up into the lap of God
to lose herself in the folds of His robe
and see things from there;
The one who keeps on loving,
and the one who has put up with me
through more than I would ever want you to know.

All of this wrapped up in the most beautiful creature in the world
that God made.

Bless you, Lord.

Happy Birthday, Marti.

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Against the flow

She's got the right idea.

She’s got the right idea.

“When everything is coming your way, you’re in the wrong lane.”

Not necessarily.

I got this from one of those joke pages flying around the Internet. Actually, having everything coming at you may not necessarily mean you’re in the wrong lane when it comes to personal growth. I would go as far as to suggest that everything going your way is probably a condition to be less trusted than feeling like you’re running into oncoming traffic.

I just don’t see God as doling out ease and contentment. His business lies more in the areas of refining and shaping us to conform more to the image of Christ, and none of that comes easy. Scripture indicates that the process by which this comes about includes, among other things, trials (James 1:2-3), suffering (Romans 5:3-4), discipline (Hebrews 12:7), and a growing sense of our own mortality (2 Corinthians 5:4-5).

In one illustration, Paul uses the metaphor of an earthen vessel to explain our human condition and how God uses us (2 Corinthians 4:7). To think about yourself as an earthen vessel, like a mug of pottery being dirtied and cast about, is to get an accurate picture of what we can expect in this life.

Just look at the verses that immediately follow this one. “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may be revealed in our mortal body” (2 Corinthians 4:8-11).

Which is to say that when everything seems to be coming at you (trials, hardship, testing times) maybe you are in the right lane after all.

Besides, isn’t it more exciting having everything come at you? It is for this reason that I always jog into oncoming traffic, because I like to know where the cars are. If someone starts drifting towards me, I figure I have at least a split second to jump out of the way. That’s definitely better than the constant thought of someone coming up behind me, fishing for a cell phone, and drifting over onto the shoulder, about to turn me into a hood ornament, and I would never know what hit me. That’s what can happen when you go with the flow.

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Being saved

th-4In 2 Corinthians 2:15, Paul writes: “For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing…” In two simple phrases, he arranges all of living humanity into only two camps. There are “those who are being saved,” and “those who are perishing.” I would submit to you that this is a much better way to distinguish in our minds between people than to think of them as Christians and non-Christians.

Our usual distinctions as to Christians and non-Christians may, in fact, be wrong. Paul’s definition is superior in that it implies a process while ours implies a fixed state. Christian and non-Christian terms also allow us to think we know something when we don’t. These terms simply do not allow for the spiritual journey that we all are on. A person whom I might call a non-Christian today might very well be one who is being saved. In the same manner, I am sure there are people whom we would call Christians today who are, in fact, those who are perishing. In any case, we don’t know for sure, who is what, and I, for one, think that’s a good thing.

By thinking of people as being saved or as perishing, it relieves us of the pressure to have to pigeonhole everybody. Every single person you meet is either being saved or perishing, and you may not know which it is. This is the kind of truth that allows us to treat everyone the same. All have equal importance since the book is not closed on anyone.

And here’s something I’d like to offer you in light of this, if you find it helpful. I have decided that I will treat everybody as if they are being saved, regardless of what I see or what they say. Why not? If I’m right, then I will have helped them along the way. If I am wrong, then I will have created the best possible environment for them to believe.

We’re basically saying here: Talk to the Spirit of God in a person whether you know it’s there or not. You never know. That still small voice may be making its way into someone’s consciousness as you speak, and your simple words of truth will strike a chord within. We are not alone in this process of bearing witness to the truth. It’s not up to us to present the convincing argument or the compelling invitation. It’s up to us to point people to Christ.

Jesus said, “And I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself” (John 12:32).

That’s good to know when you’re trying to save the world.

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‘It’s a shindig’

th-2We live next door to a young Jewish family with two girls and a boy under 10-years-old. The wife has relatives in Israel that she visits every year. I often hear her speaking Hebrew over the phone or with guests. They are devout in that they celebrate all the holy days, and Friday nights, before Shabbat, are always lively.

Over the weekend one of the girls had a birthday which they are still celebrating. Each day it seems someone new shows up and they have to have another party.

On Sunday, there were ten girls all dressed up as princesses for a tea party in the back yard. Marti undoubtedly had something to do with this, having introduced the dress-up tea party to the oldest daughter at our house, something that had a profound influence on her life. She speaks of it often and the fact that the youngest daughter picked this for her birthday party underlines that.

I had the fun of overhearing three of them talking.

“Why are we all dressed up?” said one.

“It’s a shindig,” said another.

“What’s a shindig?” said the first.

“It’s a big party,” said the first, and indeed it was. And it’s still going on.

“How long are you celebrating?” I asked the dad as he was working over the outside grill last night, getting ready for a new batch of guests.

“John, you need to understand something,” he answered. “When one of the women in my household has a birthday, we celebrate for 7 to 10 days. When one of the men has a birthday, we celebrate 7 to 10 hours. That’s just how it is.”

I’m not sure whether this has something to do with overall worth or that girls just wanna have fun but something about it seems intuitive. Guys are all for presents; they just don’t want to make much of a fuss about it. Get it over with and get back to whatever it was we were doing. Chandler’s birthday was something like that. He wasn’t very happy about any of the frills.

But Marti’s birthday is Friday, and we better have something going. She understands this. She is the one who engineered the “Very Happy Unbirthday Party” for all the women at Isaiah House without homes. Figuring that when you are homeless, you most likely do not celebrate your birthday, she decided to celebrate everyone’s birthday all together.

When you really think about it, all birthdays are big. God decided you should be. He created and named an eternal being. He started a life that cost him His son to save. Your birthday celebrates the fact that you were thought up in the mind of God and breathed into existence just like He breathed life into the first man and the first woman. And His desire is that you should live with Him forever.

I would take a few days to celebrate that, wouldn’t you?

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‘Honk if you love cheeses’

th-1Have you seen the new version of this bumper sticker? “Honk if you love Jesus; text if you want to meet him”? I like it better than the first one. Actually, we can learn something about our role as Christians in the marketplace by reflecting on that first “Honk if you love Jesus” sticker and how perceptions have changed. A little history might help.

When the “Honk if you love Jesus” sticker first got pasted on a bumper, Christians were a minority (at least we thought we were). Instead of the Silent Majority, we were more like the Vocal Minority. There was a spiritual revolution going on. Many new followers of Jesus were meeting each other and growing spiritually in and outside the church. Stickers and buttons were a means of finding each other in the marketplace and that created a sense of newly formed family. And to those outside the church and Christianity, this growing band of “Jesus Freaks” was no threat. In fact, the idea of Jesus being championed by hippies and street people had many looking on curiously. Many even came to Jesus-oriented events just to find out what it was all about.

Today Jesus represents something entirely different to those outside the church. To most of these people, Jesus is the champion of a certain political agenda or the rallying cry of the other side of a culture war. The Jesus who always stood on the side of the poor and oppressed, who stood against established religious rule and authority, who advocated turning the other cheek and loving your enemies is nowhere in the lexicon of what is perceived as Christian today. For a crash course on how many view Christians today, reflect a bit on this bumper sticker: “I’m for the separation of Church and Hate.”

So “Honk if you love Jesus” today means, “Honk if you are on our side…” “Honk if you are one of us…” and all that honking only confirms the fact that those who are not honking don’t want to have anything to do with those who are. This does not help the gospel at all. We need to be creating bridges to people, not walls and barriers.

So here’s a new take on the “Honk if you love Jesus” sticker. I saw it on my neighbor’s car. “Honk if you love cheeses.” It’s an ad for a local wine and cheese deli.

Now, to be honest, I don’t really care much for bumper stickers at all, but reflecting on this can teach us something important. If you did have this bumper sticker on your car instead of the original one, it would do two things for you. 1) It would put you on “their” side. To those who are familiar with the original Jesus sticker, they will think you are making fun of Christians, and it doesn’t hurt to make fun of what people incorrectly think Christians are all about, because that will give you an opportunity to offer another, truer picture of a follower of Christ; and 2) it might put you in touch with wine and cheese lovers, and that just might lead to a relationship, and that’s really what we want to be doing in the world — making friends with sinners like us who need Jesus.

Anything that makes a relationship is far superior to that which makes an enemy. Besides, I don’t think Jesus wants to have anything to do with a whole lot of honking.

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Always on

Do you ever feel like you’re just muddling through life? People ask how you’re doing and you say, “Oh, I’m hanging in there … just barely.” Then I remember Christ praying to the Father: “As you sent me into the world, I am sending them into the world,” and I have to ask myself: Do I sound like someone who has been “sent?”

If I have been sent, then I am on a mission, and if I am on a mission, how can I ever be muddling through life? Somehow I don’t think muddling is in my mission statement.

I’m thinking of Paul in 2 Corinthians 2:14-17 where he says that he is always being lead in a public display and is manifesting, wherever he goes, something real about the nature of his faith in Christ, and it is always having an effect on people, and I realize God can accomplish this mission in spite of what is currently happening in my life. Paul even makes this statement right after he has confessed his anxiety over plans not going as expected (verses 12-13). Even then, he could still say he was being lead on a mission.

Burning since 1901

Burning since 1901

That means nothing can stop us because nothing can stop God’s work in our lives. It would be great today if when people ask how I am, I could say, even if it’s just to myself, “I’m on a mission,” because I am. I’m on a mission to love God today with all my heart, and let that love reflect in all I do. I’m on a mission to love those closest to me — to be ruled by care and compassion and to make other people more important than me. I’m on a mission to listen and care about other people’s stories and be ready to tell my own to anyone who wants to hear it. I’m on a mission to manifest the fragrance of the knowledge of Christ wherever I go. All this can happen regardless of the circumstances in my life.

Let’s not just “hang in there” today. A disciple of Christ is on a mission and the light is always on. Live today as if you were sent, not just muddling through.

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True celebrity

Your comments about Rick and Kay’s interview are still resonating. I’m thinking of the countless people who struggle with mental illness and how they must have been encouraged by what they saw.

At the risk of overstating it, I want to point out that what is evident in this interview is nothing short of “the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.” Indeed it is Paul who wrote, “For God, who said, ‘Let light shine out of darkness,’ made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ. But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us” (2 Corinthians 4:6-7).

What you see when you watch Kay and Rick in this interview is the power of God made evident in jars of clay. Their grief and brokenness is evidence of the fragility of this “jar of clay” our spirits are all housed in, but their hope and buoyancy is the evidence of the glory of Christ that shines in and through our human condition anyway, and what is unique about this is that the camera caught it.

We so often block this process in our own lives by always presenting our best foot forward and by not telling the whole truth about our situation. In this instance, the devastation of the real experience they went through blew the cover off Rick and Kay’s best attempt to mask the pain, grief, doubt and fear that their experience forced to the surface. But it is in this very context where the power and presence of Christ is most visible. It was so tangible in this interview, you felt like you could touch it.

thWe all can take heart in this, because this is where we all qualify to be instruments of God’s grace in the world. We all qualify by the pain in our own lives — by the limitations of our humanity — to show forth, in the midst of that, “the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.” It’s in all who believe. It is in this way that you and I show forth Christ to the world.

Isn’t it ironic that in all of Rick’s successes in the world as author of a book that sold over 35 million copies, pastor of a megachurch and evangelical celebrity, that it is in this tragedy that the power of Christ is most real and most evident?

That’s why we can all do this. True celebrity is the glory of Christ in our lives showing through our broken humanity.

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