The myth of difference; the pride of indifference

For as long as I can remember, it has been considered a virtue for Christians to be different from everyone who is not a Christian. The more different we are, the more spiritual we are. This is a tragic misinterpretation of the truth. This false virtue has played into legalism and Pharisaical attitudes in a big way. At least as I learned it, there was never any difference between different and better. To be different was to be better.

The connection to legalism is an obvious one. The easiest way to define different is by way of behavior: what you do and don’t do (with usually an emphasis on what you don’t do, as in Christians don’t drink or party or dance or swear, etc.). As long as spirituality can be defined as something we can control then we can assure ourselves of being better.

Then along comes Jesus to redefine everything. This is why the Pharisees hated Him so much: He messed up their system of being different. Jesus came along and basically redefined the law. It was as if He said: You say you haven’t killed anyone; I say if you have ever had hate in your heart, you are a murderer. You say you have never had your neighbor’s wife; I say if you have ever lusted for a woman in your heart you have committed adultery with her. You say you live by your vows; I say don’t vow anything because you won’t be able to keep it. You say someone should pay for what they have done wrong; I say turn the other cheek. If they force you to go one mile, go two. If they take your shirt, give them your coat, too. You say love your neighbor and hate your enemy; I say love your enemy and pray for those who persecute you. In other words, if you want to be righteous you’re going to have to be more righteous than these Pharisees here who think they have righteousness neatly wrapped up and under control and set themselves apart (as different) from everyone they judge. (Matthew 5:20-48 obviously paraphrased)

In each case, Jesus turned spirituality from an external behavior they could easily keep into an internal attitude they couldn’t. And when you realize you can’t is when you realize you are just like the people you are trying to rise above. You are just as big of a sinner as the next guy.

And here’s what I’ve discovered about this: there is a correlation between the false virtue of being different and being indifferent. The more different you think you are, the more indifferent you become to others and their needs. This is certainly the lesson learned from the Isaiah House women. The closer we get to them, the more we realized we are the same, and the more we realized we are the same, the more we care.

The more you realize how much the same as everyone else you are, the less indifferent to their needs you will become; you will come to care for them because you identify with them. This is why we all love and hate Marti. She turned a project into an involvement. It would have been much easier to drop a meal by the homeless and get back to your own home, but when you get close enough to realize how much the same you are, you can no longer maintain your indifference. Now we really care for these people; what will we do now?

Sooner or later we realize: We are all homeless; we are all adulterers; we are all murderers; we are all poor; we are all hungry; we are all mental cases; we are all lawbreakers, and we all need a savior.

Thanks to Jesus Christ, we all have one.

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‘Best doctor ever!’

Girl’s cabin

My daughter, Annie, is in her ninth month of a 14-month intensive Emergency Room training for Physician Assistants at the Arrowhead Regional Medical Center in Colton, CA. It’s a huge state-of-the-art general hospital smack in the middle of one of the poorest, gang-infested areas of Southern California. The training is on-the-job, and the job is in one of the most demanding E.R. centers in the country. Annie comes home every weekend with stories from a third world country an hour and a half away.

But this story comes not from the hospital, but from a special camp in the San Bernardino Mountains for junior high and high school kids with type 1 diabetes. Type 1 means their bodies do not create insulin and they have to monitor their blood every two hours (yes, at 3 and 5 in the morning, too) by taking a pin prick of blood and stabilizing their levels of insulin and sugar with either an injection or a snack. These are healthy, active, normal kids who can drop unconscious any minute if their proper levels are not maintained. They have also learned to live with this constant pricking and poking, and will have to for the rest of their lives. Annie’s job was to be medically responsible for two cabins of kids, monitoring everything they ate and drank and figuring their treatments and administering them every two hours.

Annie entertained us for a whole afternoon and evening with stories from the week. How she came up with tying up her hair and filling it with syringes so she could quickly inject a cabin-full of kids. (Her demonstration of this resembled a swashbuckling Three Musketeer in a sword fight.) How she took part in everything they did. How she would drag them out of the pool, prick them, shoot them and throw them back in.  How she once had them push her into the pool fully clothed so she could hang with them a little longer. How she got them to drink their water when no one else could. (“You’re teaching them a beer drinking game?” one of the doctors said with an appalled look quickly followed by one of acknowledged admiration. “Who said anything about beer?” said Annie. “This is water pong.”) How in a downhill mountain bike race, Annie’s competitiveness took over and instead of stopping to help a kid who got a flat tire, she called out “That sucks!” and blew past him into second place.

But nothing equaled the story that happened one night when someone gave the wrong reading on the root beer floats they had before bed, and the entire camp was unconscious at the first watch. How Annie and another P.A. stared at each other when one of them asked, “How could the counselors let this happen?” and with a look of shock they realized the counselors, kitchen staff, and some of the doctors were all type 1 diabetics, too. And how they sprang into action, Annie running full tilt from cabin to clinic to cabin to clinic. And for the next half hour as counselors and staff came to, the comment most heard was “Annie was there,” or “Annie got that.”

“What about cabin 12?”

Boy’s cabin

“Annie got that.”

“Cabin 13”

“…Annie.”

“What is she, Wonder Doctor?”

Well according to the kids on the last day as the bus pulled away and Annie wiped her eyes after closing the door of her truck, they all screamed out: “Best doctor ever!”

And why do I tell you this story except as an excuse to brag about my daughter? I tell it because of what these kids have to deal with every day and every night, and what Annie told me: That she never heard one complaint from even one of them all week.

Suddenly I don’t have anything to complain about either.

Annie and Maggie: Annie’s match already for Chandler

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George, Barbara and Bill

Parade magazine yesterday published an exclusive interview with the 41st President of the United States, George Herbert Walker Bush and his wife, Barbara. One of the topics that came up during the interview was the surprising friendship between George Bush and Bill Clinton, the man who once ousted Bush from his run for a second term as President. “Well, he knows a lot about everything,” George said of Clinton. “He’s a very knowledgeable, bright man. He sat out here one time, and we talked about every possible [subject] – one after another.”

“But he never said a mean word about anyone,” Barbara interjected. “…I think he thinks of George as the father he never had. Truthfully. I mean that as a compliment. He’s been very thoughtful about calling and he’s a good fellow.”

When asked if she thought the friendship surprised her, she said, “I was surprised that I liked him, truthfully. And I do like him a lot. And he and George W. have worked together. I think they’re patriots. Maybe that’s the answer to your question.”

Maybe all those present and former Clinton-haters should take notice of this. George and Barbara like Bill. A lot.

Anyone who has noticed anything about politics over the last 20 years will remember that to many Christians at the time, and I would dare say to many, still, Bill Clinton was (is) something less of a good fellow. At the time he was the anti-Christ to some, and when the scandal with Monica Lewinsky surfaced at the end of his second term, he became at least the scoundrel many Christians thought he always was. Imagine: George, Barbara and the anti-Christ chatting in the front room about anything and everything. What ridiculous claims politics force on us.

I wish we could all take a clue from Mr. and Mrs. Bush, that in the end, George, Bill and even George W. are, as Barbara says, “patriots” – human beings who care deeply about America.

Wouldn’t it be great, in this election year, if we could start out thinking about Mitt Romney and Barack Obama this way – as human beings who care deeply about their country – instead of demonizing one or the other, and waiting until either one, or both are old former Presidents chatting together in the front room to realize this?

Certainly if anyone should set the tone for this kind of gracious, civilized thinking and living, it should be Christians.

Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human authority: whether to the emperor, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people. Live as free people, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as God’s slaves. Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor. (1 Peter 2:13-17)

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A new law

Today’s Catch is a little different. Today’s Catch is made up of two contributions I received based on yesterday’s Catch, which, if you haven’t read, you should do first. The first is a song from Marc by Derek Webb that in Marc’s words “says it all.” The second is a candid and thoughtful piece of writing by James. It is truly unique how these two pieces compliment each other.
 
If either of these touches you or better yet, makes you think, write me and tell me how and why. I’d love to hear from you. (I’d especially like to know what you think the new law is.) And if you would like to comment to Marc or James, you can do so through our “Comment” link below.
 
John

 

To Let Go…
 
To let go of all that keeps us from knowing Christ (and fear is a main contributor) requires a depth of faith and understanding which in truth so many people struggle to obtain even though within themselves they can hear God offering counseling.
 
Through fear we too often choose to ignore what we hear on the basis that it couldn’t have been God and most likely was only our own thoughts, so no action need be taken.
 
Fear will keep us from knowing all that a loving father wants his children to experience: the joy, the peace, the energy, and the challenges positively embraced in the certainty of reward when Gods ways are believed.
 
On what authority do I make these comments? As one who even now allows fear to keep him from being the person God has in mind, and whose heart aches and will continue to do so until it’s given absolutely and without fear to its Creator.
 
James

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Checking for the fear factor

In this season it is good to check your emotions.

There are two that are especially prevalent, and seem to grow as political activity increases. Neither should be found as a motivator for a follower of Jesus Christ. I am speaking of the emotions of fear and anger.

I became aware of the presence of fear especially among Christians some years ago when I realized how strong the desire for safety was in the Christian subculture, and how it was the driving force behind much of what is now without a doubt a multi-billion dollar industry providing signature goods and services to Christians who desire a safer alternative to what the world has to offer. As pioneers in what came to be known as “Christian” music, we had no idea how widespread the Christian label was to become.

At first I was excited about how fast this was developing, but I quickly became aware of something sinister lurking underneath this fast moving market. It was the need for safety, and underneath that, the dominating presence of fear.

Today, the Internet is a feeding ground for fear. Conspiracy theories, rumors, false stories, and promises for protection roam cyberspace looking for fearful hearts to exploit. Some ask for money, others sell a safer alternative. Both ministries and politicians regularly succumb to the knowledge that the quickest way to someone’s wallet is to make them afraid and then offer them something that will alleviate their fear. Think of how many appeal letters follow this pattern.

My encouragement to you is to be on guard for the fear syndrome. You’ll find it everywhere: in political ads, in sermons, in Christian radio and television – anywhere someone is trying to motivate people to do something. Fear makes one turn in towards the self, circle the wagons, and run away from the world that Christ sent us into. I can say without question that if fear is anywhere in a proposal or a motivation, the enterprise is outside the Spirit of God. God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind.

1 Peter 3: 14-15 says this: “‘Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened.’ But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord.” The alternative to fear is the presence of Christ in someone’s heart. Perfect love casts out all fear.

Let’s check and make sure the right thing is motivating us. Jesus wants us in the world, not running away from it. He knows it is dangerous, that’s why he prayed for our protection when he was here (John 17:15): “My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one.”

With Jesus in our hearts, and the Holy Spirit surrounding us, what else do we need?

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Why Francis Schaeffer still matters

A few years ago I wrote an article in Christianity Today about the late Francis Schaeffer. Today’s Catch is edited from that article because I believe the sensitivity he modeled is much needed today in this mean-spirited, take-sides culture that only stands to get worse in America as a Presidential election approaches. True followers of Christ need to avoid joining in the bashing, and here is a good reason why.

He was a small man — barely five feet in his knickers, knee socks, and ballooning white shirts. For two weeks, first as a freshman, and then again as a senior, I sat in my assigned seat at Wheaton College chapel and heard him cry. He was the evangelical conscience at the end of the 20th century, weeping over a world that most of his peers dismissed as not worth saving, except to rescue a few souls in the doomed planet’s waning hours.

Francis Schaeffer was hard to listen to. His voice grated. It was a high-pitched scream, and when mixed with his eastern Pennsylvania accent, resulted in something like Elmer Fudd on speed. As freshmen, unfamiliar with the thought and works of modern man, we thought it was funny. As seniors, it wasn’t funny any more. After we had studied Kant, Hegel, Sartre, and Camus, the voice was now more like an existential shriek. If Edvard Munch’s The Scream had a voice, it would sound like Francis Schaeffer. Schaeffer, who died in 1984, understood the existential cry of a humanity trapped in a prison of its own making.

Schaeffer was the closest thing to a “man of sorrows” I have seen. He could not allow himself to be happy when most of the world was desperately lost and he knew why. He was the first Christian I found who could embrace faith and the despair of a lost humanity all at the same time. Though he had been found, he still knew what it was to be lost.

Schaeffer was the first Christian leader who taught me to weep over the world instead of judging it. Schaeffer modeled a caring and thoughtful engagement in the history of philosophy and its influence through movies, novels, plays, music, and art. Here was Schaeffer, teaching at Wheaton College about the existential dilemma expressed in Michelangelo Antonioni’s 1966 film, Blowup, when movies were still forbidden to students. He didn’t bat an eye. He ignored our legalism and went on teaching because he had been personally gripped by the desperation of such cultural statements.

Schaeffer taught his followers not to sneer at or dismiss the dissonance in modern art. He showed how these artists were merely expressing the outcome of the presuppositions of the modern era that did away with God and put all conclusions on a strictly human, rational level. Instead of shaking our heads at a depressing, dark, abstract work of art, the true Christian reaction should be to weep for the lost person who created it. Schaeffer was a rare Christian leader who advocated understanding and empathizing with non-Christians instead of taking issue with them.

The normal human reaction is to hate what we don’t understand. This is the stuff of prejudice and the cause of hate crimes and escalating culture wars. It is much more Christ-like to identify with those we don’t understand — to discover why people do what they do, because we care about them, even if they are our ideological enemies.

Anyway, Jesus asked us to love our enemies. Part of loving is learning to understand. Too few Christians today seek to understand why their enemies think in ways they find abhorrent. Too many of us are too busy bashing feminists, secular humanists, gay activists, and political liberals to consider why they believe what they do. It’s difficult to sympathize with people you see as threats to your children and your neighborhood. It’s hard to weep over those whom you have declared as your enemies.

Perhaps a good beginning would be to more fully grasp the depravity of our own souls, and the depth to which God’s grace had to go to reach us. I don’t think you can cry over the world if you’ve never cried over yourself.

To be sure, Francis Schaeffer’s influence has declined in recent years, as postmodernism has supplanted the modernity he dissected for so long. Schaeffer is not without critics, even among Christians. But perhaps, in the end, his greatest influence on the church will not be his words as much as his cry. The same things that made Francis Schaeffer cry in his day need to make us cry in ours.

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‘But what about him?’

“Peter turned and saw that the disciple whom Jesus loved was following them… When Peter saw him, he asked, ‘Lord, what about him?’ Jesus answered, ‘If I want him to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? You must follow me.'” (John 21:20-22)

There is a popular argument for not believing that Jesus is the only way to heaven. How could Jesus be the only way to heaven when not everyone on the planet has even heard about Jesus? Would a just and loving God condemn people to hell for the crime of growing up where they never heard about Jesus?

There is more than one approach to this question, but one of the most important is that introduced by the example of Jesus and Peter in the dialogue above. Peter is wondering how John was going to die, and Jesus says, “What is that to you? You must follow me.”

What about the guy who grows up a Buddhist and never hears about Jesus? The answer is the same: “What is that to you? You must follow me.”

One has to already know a good deal about Jesus to even be asking this question, and to use it as an excuse not to believe is ludicrous. That’s saying you are not going to be accountable to what you know about Jesus, or could find out if you tried, because there is a guy somewhere in the world who in your estimation can’t find out anything.

When Jesus said: “You follow me,” He was saying: “You follow what you know of me — what has been revealed to you. You are not responsible for what has been revealed to someone else; that is between my Father and that person.”

This also applies to our experience in life. When you want to compare your life to someone else’s — someone else has had it better or worse than you — guess what Jesus says. “What is that to you? You must follow me.”

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Looking for God at the center of everything

Scientists are looking for God. Only they call Him “Higgs boson” – a theory developed by University of Edinburgh professor Peter Higgs that there is a yet undiscovered particle at the tiniest center of all things that holds everything together. That’s why they are also calling it the God particle. For the last few days, scientists around the world who study subatomic particles have been holding their collective breaths thinking they may have found what Mr. Higgs theorized about with the aid of a massive particle accelerator in Geneva called the Large Hadron Collider. Others question whether they have truly found Higgs boson or an imposter – something else that is acting like it. The debate is because they actually can’t see the Higgs boson, only its evidence on other particles around it. (Sounds an awful lot like the Spirit that Jesus described as the wind – you can’t see it, only its effect.)

Whether they’ve found what they are looking for or not, all the hoopla around it is a scientific testimony to what the Bible has said all along. Paul, in Colossians 1:17, when describing the attributes of Jesus Christ as God’s Son who contains all of God in His fullness, also says, “He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together,” or as the good old King James version says it “all things consist.” In other words, without Jesus, everything would fly apart.

Don’t you love it when science and the word of God collide? To me, that’s more exciting than the subatomic particles they are throwing at each other in Geneva. The closer scientists get to the building blocks of the universe, the more it becomes necessary to use God to describe what they are seeking. God, and particularly Jesus, is what is holding everything together.

In light of all this there was an editorial cartoon Friday in the Los Angeles Times that had a woman watering her lawn all excited about the new discovery, “Physicists have just confirmed there’s a ‘God Particle’ – the Higgs boson – that binds the universe together and makes all things possible!” While next to her, in a lawn chair, sits what appears to be her husband in a tank top with a bowl of chips and empty cans at his feet saying, “We’re out of beer.” The caption is priceless: “Perspective is everything.”

Indeed it is.

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One thing

God’s not mad anymore, so why are we?

We often speak of gratitude around Thanksgiving, but why not step into the righteousness of God all the time and be grateful (in awe… astonished…) not in ourselves, but for what we can see when we look from His perspective.

Gratitude is essential. It is seminal. It is impossible to avoid because the need for it is so great, rising out of the fact that nothing we have comes from us. If one piece of it were mine — one small portion, the result of my hard work, connections, earning power, or pedigree — then I would not need to give thanks for that. I would take it to myself because I deserved it. But that is not the case. All things come from God. The worst and the best are both from Him, and so they both call for us to give thanks.

“Always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (Ephesians 5:20)

There is also a reduction principle to gratitude. It simplifies our lives. We are either worrying or giving thanks, complaining or giving thanks, conniving or giving thanks, stealing or giving thanks, lying or giving thanks, envying or giving thanks, lusting or giving thanks, cheating or giving thanks, blaming or giving thanks. See how much easier it is to just give thanks? Only one thing to think about.

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Founder or Pharisee?

Jesus at the home of a Pharisee

One of our readers commented that she liked this look at Jesus as a radical or a rebel. In saying this she implied that it was a new perspective, or at least one that she hadn’t considered before. I replied that the concept is certainly not new. Jesus has always been a radical and a rebel in the face of the ruling religious authorities (that’s why they killed Him) and the story has always been there in the Gospels for anyone to see. It’s just that when movements become structured and institutionalized they have the tendency of taking on the characteristics of the Pharisees and not of the founder. And with the “Pharisees” in charge, everything gets skewed to their perspective. So you’re not going to see the radical nature of Christ’s teaching advocated from the pulpits of our churches on a regular basis. That might upset too many people, make them feel uncomfortable or force them to change.

A mentor of mine used to teach us that any great movement in history always begins with a Man (it could be a woman, too, but for sake of alliteration…), then it turns into a Movement, then to a Machine, and finally, it becomes a Monument. I think this is the natural course of things in human nature. As movements become institutionalized (the Machine stage), they lose the radical nature of their founder. That’s why we need to continually go back to Jesus – the Jesus of the New Testament – and go back to what He said and did, and if that becomes difficult or hard to take or understand, we mustn’t just pass it off or pass it by. We must find out why. Why don’t we hear this part of Christ’s message, or why don’t we see these things exemplified in His followers and in our own lives? If something Jesus said or did makes us uncomfortable, that’s probably because it should. Preachers should make their congregations uncomfortable on a regular basis. If they’re not, you have to wonder if they are teaching the truth. Preachers should be making themselves uncomfortable for that matter, because the things Jesus said are hard to take, and even harder to do.

If you’re not following the founder you may be following a Pharisee. Leaders who are following the founder leave their own lives open on a regular basis, because the truth cuts them as deeply as it cuts everyone else.

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