I haven’t heard back from anyone yet about calling someone you love just to call. No favor. No agenda. Just a call, because I realized, with one of my friends last week, that life can be over so fast you lose your chance. You pick up the phone and they’re not there anymore.
The T. S. Eliot quote, “Where is the life we have lost in living?” often haunts me. What is life for, if not for relationships? And what is wrong with our living, if in it, we have no time for the people we love – even the people we would love to love if we had the chance? Why not give ourselves that chance? Why not take it?
I have one particular friend who loves to chat. Sometimes I hesitate to call him because I’m moving faster than that. I need a quick answer, but I know my pace will slow down as soon as I get him on the line. He’s made different choices. He lives his life at a pace that allows him to do this, or at least he makes conversation a priority. I’m the agitated one, ripping through my moments with not a care for anyone but myself and my agenda. What is life for if not for connecting with friends long enough to be meaningful? Does something have to be set aside for this? Then set it aside.
I’m obviously speaking to myself today. You may not need this, but I desperately do. That’s why I’m not going to let it go. One Catch last week was not enough, at least not enough for me.
Another one of my friends sent me a Bruce Cockburn song after reading last week’s Catch. It’s the title cut from his 2006 album, “Life Short Call Now.” I am including the lyrics here, but you might want to blow $.99 and get it on iTunes. It’s guaranteed to make you call someone.
Life Short Call Now
by Bruce Cockburn
Billboards promise paradise
And tattoos “done while you wait”
Possible futures all laid out
On the sweeping curve of the interstate
Got no city, got no land
Got no lover, got no wife
How many ways to say goodbye
Can one man fit in a nomad life?
Life short call now
Life short call now
Life short call now
Life short call now
Lone car waves, then it wanes
Leaves only voices in the hall
And in the room next door to mine
The bed is banging on the wall
You’ve no idea how I long
For even one loving caress
For you to step into my heart
Without deception or duress
Life short call now
Life short call now
Life short call now
Life short call now











