When preachers get loud

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I’ve made it tough on myself lately. I’ve been choosing to write about topics I know I struggle to understand and act on — things I hoped to change through the transparency of writing. So far, I’ve found out it isn’t that easy. Last week it was empathy, and I took some heat from my wife and a friend of the Catch, Robert from Seattle, who thought that my anticipated new personal embrace of empathy over the week never happened. Ouch! He was right. Oh, I wrote some great thoughts about empathy, for sure, but I didn’t necessarily become a noticeably more empathetic person from the experience, like I thought I would.

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Better to give than to get

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Life is always shallow until you finally see

That living for yourself will never make you free

                     from the song “Look All Around You” by John Fischer

You don’t give to get. You give to give. Period. There are trends in some Christian circles about giving for what you will get back. That is not this. That is trying to manipulate God, which, of course, you can’t do. This is as far from getting as you can get. It’s not about getting. It’s about giving.

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Live large

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Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. 2 Corinthians 9:6

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In Marti Fischer’s shoes

 

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We’ve discovered that empathy is walking a mile in someone else’s shoes — to see the world as they see it. And if this person is important to you, then the things they see will be important to you as well.

So in this final look at empathy, let’s climb into Marti Fischer’s shoes and find out what’s important to her.

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Coming together versus pulling apart

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It was humanly impossible to hear this scream and not feel pain. This was not play-acting. There was something wrong, and someone was in trouble.

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Moved with compassion

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When He went ashore, He saw a large crowd, and felt compassion for them and healed their sick. (Matthew 14:14)

Empathy is not just a feeling; it’s a feeling that compels us to do something.

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Day Two: In someone else’s shoes

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Empathy requires that we step outside ourselves. Empathy requires a level of selflessness that may be a hard reach for some. Once again, Jesus would be our example, who gave up His right to be God in order to be a human being. Jesus was in our shoes the whole time because He shed His God-shoes when He was born in Bethlehem (Philippians 2:5-8).

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Empathy: Day One

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Empathy: the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

I intend to spend this week learning about and writing about empathy. It is my goal to not only understand it by Friday, but to have it. That’s a tall order for a narcissist like me.

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We may need to break some glass.

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I have always been fascinated by the famous Edward Hopper 1940s painting I used in yesterday’s Catch of a stark corner cafe in the middle of the city in the pre-dawn hours with three guests seated at the counter and a server working the night shift. There is nothing on the walls, hardly anything on the counter, the street is empty and the feeling is one of isolation. The people are there, but they are expressionless, hardly communicating. It’s an existential painting and reminds me of the play, “No Exit” by Jean-Paul Sartre. There is no door in the picture except for what appears to be a small door to the kitchen. The people seem encased in glass — trapped, but trying to make the best of it. The painting came out in 1942 in the middle of WWII and is fitting considering a pessimistic view of the world at that time.

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Finding Jesus down at Johnny’s

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Now if Jesus were here I think we’d find Him today

Down at Johnny’s Cafe.

This line worked well as the punchline of the song, but it’s a little misleading. It implies that Jesus isn’t here today. Well, true, Jesus isn’t here physically — just as the song represents — but there are many other ways in which He is here.

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